Ricky Wainwright I am rather astonished at the number of people who have told me very similar stories since this piece was originally published. I didn’t realise that I was in such ample company, that I share so much of this experience with so many. All the more reason for me to be grateful, after all these years, that the Woman’s Hour piece triggered me to finally write this and put it out in the world. It really, really yanks my chain and pisses me right off that this happened to you, to us, to anybody. FED is best, end of. Thanks so much for commenting and sharing and lending weight to the importance of health and support systems doing better by new parents and their babies!